We’ve clocked in another year. Same routine. Similar goals. It feels all too familiar, doesn’t it? The sherehe climax takes a steep dip as the realities of Njaanuary kick in. Now walking to work seems like a plausible exercise routine, ugali and sukuma wiki are a complete meal, and the matatu network isn’t all too hectic, as a matter of fact, it’s manageable – economically especially ;). And crippling in as an addition to the already full glass of anxiety is the resolution pressure, the enemy really does work overtime.
So, how can we define the resolution hustle? A process to improve oneself in a systematic self-reflective manner ~ Konyu Mwangi. The majority of people tend to put things down like “exercise more”, “eat healthier”, “take swimming lessons”, “learn to dance”, and while all these are good, I’d like to bring your attention to the concept of Cheshbon ha-Nefesh – ‘An account of the soul’ for a change. This is when you make an honest assessment of your behavior and relationships, in an effort to start the new year without any baggage. ~Aussiedave.
Slow your mind down, and take a step to reflect on your past hurt and shortcomings. Try to let go of the past, forgive, seek forgiveness and most importantly forgive yourself, as the latter is usually the most difficult part of self-healing, and self-healing is the first step to a better you.
With our scars all stitched up now, the resolution hustle takes its second phase, the positive mindset change. Our thoughts create our world. Stay positive but realistic. This concept, like most things in the world, has its victims. The ‘find the silver lining in all matters” delusion, this is not at all what I am advocating. Life is a bed of roses, but remember, roses do have thorns that tend to prick from time to time. Therefore, for the second part of the resolution, purpose to group and regroup as the circumstance dictates this year. To not be too rigid by holding on to a sinking ship. To pick up a book and read on a subject you’re interested in. To fail in your first attempt at that project you’ve been fantasizing about. Believe in yourself, trust in the process of the goal you hope to achieve, fall in love with the pain that will accompany that journey, then do it! The results will flow in.
Let’s hustle differently this year :)!
